While we work hard to keep our platform safe, your vigilance is the best protection. Follow these tips to ensure a positive and secure dating experience.
Never send money to someone you haven't met in person
Keep personal information private until you build trust
Always meet in public places for first dates
Tell a friend or family member about your plans
Don't share your full name, home address, workplace, phone number, or email address until you've built trust with someone.
Keep conversations on Where Adults Meet initially. This helps protect your contact information and provides a record if issues arise.
Don't link your dating profile to social media accounts. Someone can learn a lot about you from your social media presence.
Avoid photos that reveal identifying information like your license plate, address numbers, or workplace logos.
Excessive flattery, declarations of love very quickly, or profiles that seem perfect might be scams or catfishing attempts.
Pay attention if someone's story doesn't add up or changes over time. Trust your instincts if something feels off.
Be suspicious if someone always has excuses for not video chatting or meeting in person despite weeks of conversation.
Beware of tales of emergencies, family crises, or financial difficulties—especially if they hint at needing money.
Scammers often try to move conversations off the platform quickly or pressure you to meet before you're ready.
This is the biggest red flag. No legitimate romantic interest will ask for money, no matter how compelling their story.
Always meet in busy, public locations like cafes, restaurants, or shopping centers. Avoid private or isolated locations.
Drive yourself or use your own transportation. Never accept rides from someone you just met or let them know where you live.
Share your date details with a trusted friend or family member—who you're meeting, where, and when you expect to be home.
Keep a clear head on first dates. Don't accept drinks you didn't see poured, and never leave your drink unattended.
If you feel uncomfortable at any point, it's okay to end the date early. Your safety is more important than being polite.
Consider meeting during daylight hours for first dates. This adds an extra layer of safety and comfort.
Don't feel rushed to share personal details or meet in person. Take time to get to know someone through the platform first.
Before meeting in person, have a video call to verify they're who they claim to be and to build comfort.
It's okay to do a quick online search. Use reverse image searches on their photos to check if they're stolen from elsewhere.
Be cautious of overwhelming attention, constant messaging, or rushing emotional intimacy. Healthy relationships develop at a natural pace.
No matter the reason—emergency, travel expenses, medical bills—never send money to someone you've met online.
These are common scam methods because they're untraceable. Legitimate romantic interests don't ask for financial help.
Never share bank account numbers, credit card details, or access to financial accounts.
Be wary of anyone offering investment opportunities or cryptocurrency schemes, especially if they promise high returns.
If you're in immediate danger, contact emergency services:
For platform-related safety concerns, use our reporting tools or email safety@whereadultsmeet.com
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Our safety team monitors the platform around the clock to detect suspicious activity.
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Our safety team is here to help. Report any suspicious behavior or concerns immediately.
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